How to celebrate Christmas in a non-Christian country? Because I had showed up in South Korea unauthorized with only a suitcase of clothes https://thedaysforward.com/second-infantry-division-education-program-1973/, there were few options for decorations or familiar Christmas trimmings. It was hard to get to the big PX in Seoul, so it wasn’t possible to depend on that as a source of Christmas decorations for our home in a Korean house in downtown Ui Jong Bu. A soldier in 1-15 FA , who had also been in Bill’s battery in his last assignment in Augsburg, Germany, was a native of South Korea; he told us that there was a Christmas tree market in Seoul where we could find a Christmas tree. Wow! Great! When can we go? Not that easy, of course, for a battery commander to take time off to go get a Christmas tree.
When the time came, we had to catch a kimchi-cab (a tiny three-wheeled car common in Korea at that time) at the gate of Camp Stanley that was willing to take us to Seoul. That was the only way to get there in a timely manner and to have a way to get the Christmas tree back to Ui Jong Bu – can you imagine trying to take a Christmas tree on an hour long ride on a bus? A small kimchi-cab would have to do. That became the plan.
We never found the Christmas tree market. Disappointed, we had the cab driver turn around and head back to Ui Jong Bu. As we were driving through the busy streets of Seoul, I noticed a flower shop. “STOP! BACK UP.” Why? Outside, on either side of the flower shop door were two small potted pine trees. We rushed into the flower shop. Finding the owner, we tried to ask him if we could buy one of the trees. We had a language problem having to use a lot of hand signals – no English for him and little useful Korean for us. (I had taken a course in the Korean language, but I only learned practical words like how to direct a taxi cab driver to get me from Camp Stanley to our place in Ui Jong Bu: “right”, “left”, “straight ahead”.) The owner was surprised and dumbfounded by the two crazy Americans who came running into his shop at dusk waving their hands pointing to the trees outside. Eventually, he understood what we wanted. It was a hard decision for him, but he soon agreed, and we were heaving one heavy potted tree to the kimchi cab. The flower shop owner was not the first one that day who would be dumfounded by our actions.
The kimchi cab driver, already wondering what was going on, was stunned when we came towards his cab carrying the potted tree. It wasn’t so small when we tried to get it into his cab. I barely fit in the back seat with the tree, but with me and the tree filling the back seat, there was no room for Bill. He had to fit himself into the tiny front passenger seat, knees to his chin throughout the hour-long drive. Luckily, the cab driver accommodated our weird requests.
Getting back to Ui Jong Bu, we piled out of the cab, opened the gate to our Korean home and found our Korean landlords and their four children watching the spectacle. What in the world were we doing dragging a live tree into their home? (We had done other odd things that they remembered. https://thedaysforward.com/a-refrigerator-in-korea-1973/ ) Luckily, the husband worked at Camp Red Cloud only a few blocks away and knew about American Christmas customs, so that he could explain to his wife and family what we were doing.
For me, the next step was how to make the pine tree into a Christmas tree. I eventually conceived a plan (no internet purchases were possible back then). I made a trip the few blocks to Camp Red Cloud to see what they might have in their Shoppette and eventually found in the Camp Stanley PX Shoppette some candy canes, a little ribbon and got out some paper and scissors; with them I made a lot of paper snowflakes to place on the boughs of the tree.
adorns the Rice Christmas tree each year
When I was finished, the little pine tree looked festive in our Korean home. On Christmas Day we were able to go to Christmas Mass at the chapel and to the Mess Hall for dinner with the soldiers of Bill’s battery at Camp Stanley.
To extend our holiday festivities, we decided to invite the ladies that worked with me at St. Louis High School and their husbands over for New Year’s Eve. Bill had given me a beautiful Korean brass punchbowl, matching cups and ladle for Christmas along with a sewing machine. We would have punch for our New Year’s Eve party!
We decided upon having eggnog for our guests. It was homemade: lots of eggs and cream and some bourbon from the Class VI store. Our American guests liked our eggnog. We invited our Korean landlords in for some snacks and eggnog. They didn’t like it one little bit! They are not used to milk products, so it was overwhelming for them – oh, well, we had tried to be hospitable! They liked the hot buttered rum that we served, too, but the brass cups weren’t too good for the hot liquid – oh, way too hot to even hold the metal cup, let alone drink it until it cooled!
It was a most unusual Christmas season, but a memorable one! And the punchbowl, besides being a wonderful memory of an unusual Christmas, was used for many celebrations during Bill’s 27-year Army career. Even so, I don’t think we ever made homemade eggnog or hot buttered rum, again!
**This photo gives you an idea of what a “kimchi”cab looked like. We were unable to find a photo the kimchi-cab prevalent in South Korea in the 1970’s. This truck would have been better than the car to transport our tree, but then there would have been no room for Bill and me! If anyone has a photo of a kimchi-cab from the early 1970’s, please leave a comment on the story. We would love to have a copy.
Dennis Hayashi says
What a wonderful story! Kudos on your resourcefulness. I can see you and Bill navigating this with a lot of smiles and laughs. Really enjoyed this article! Happy Holidays!
suzanne says
Thank you, Dennis! So happy that you enjoyed the story. Bill was very patient with my desire to have a “normal” Christmas so far away from home. Don’t we miss him. Merry Christmas to you and your wonderful family.
Janie Taylor (wife of Michael W. Taylor '69 says
Merry Christmas, Suzanne! I remember our Christmases in Germany, candles on the tree and all. We had befriended a wonderful German couple who took us under wing and we did everything the German way. Wonderful memories and I’m still friends with the wife, Georgia, today!
Suzanne says
HI! Janie. Wasn’t it wonderful to make such dear friends and be able to learn first-hand about their special traditions. How blessed we have been! Best wishes this Christmas. Peace and joy in the new year.
Ray Dupere says
Great story, Suzanne! One of the things I loved most of all about my and Avril’s active duty experience was our time together overseas. We had a almost a year and a half together in Germany, and many years later as civilians three and a half years in England.
Merry Christmas to you and all those you love. May God bless you beyond all your expectations.
Suzanne says
What wonderful memories to cherish. Thank you, Ray. God’s blessings to you and your family this Christmas and throughout the new year.
Eric Robyn says
Thanks for sharing this beautiful memory, Suzanne! What a blessing for you and Bill to be witnesses of your faith overseas. May you and the entire Rice Family be richly blessed this Christmas!
Suzanne says
HI! Eric, Didn’t we have some great adventures during those Army years! We were blessed to have you and Sally along for many of them. Wishing you both a Merry Christmas along with the entire Robyn family!
Julie Nelson says
Loved your details about getting around in Korea and all the memories of celebrating our traditions in a foreign country. I had some of the same experiences when I was there. Blessings to you in the new year
Suzanne says
What a delightful surprise to find your message, Julie. Didn’t the Army provide us with so many wonderful experiences but even better were the friends we were able to make. Meeting you and your family in the West Point Math Department was the best!
Marcella masteller says
Loved the story. I bet they celebrate Christmas now days; we found Seoul
to be modern in many ways but different also. Thanks.
Suzanne says
It’s so nice to hear from you, Marcella. Glad you enjoyed the story. You have very special connections to South Korea. Remind me when you were there. Happy New Year to you and your loved ones.
Dolores Lohr says
That is a Christmas you won’t forget! What an adventure!